Monday, February 14, 2011

Bucket List

I've seen this on a number of blogs over the past day or so, and I thought I'd play along too.

1. Kiss a girl - Uh, hello? I guess this is a question meant for the ladies. If I should answer as if the question was "Kiss a guy", the answer is No.
2. Have anal - On the giving side, yes. Love it.
3. Have a threesome - A phone sex threesome (see here.) Not exactly what they're asking, but it was *amazing*!
4. Engage in group sex - No, but would love to under the right circumstances.
5. Have phone sex - Yes, I *love* phone sex!
6. Masturbate - Seriously? Does anyone not???
7. Use a vibrator - No.
8. Use a sex toy on someone else - No, but would be happy to try.
9. Be tied up - No.
10. Tie someone up - No, but I've fantasized about it.
11. Have sex in a public space - Parked car on a public street.
12. Be a voyeur and watch others having sex (live, porn does not count) - Yes! Our times at the sex club. (See my posts tagged "The Club".) I miss the club terribly, and hope there will be more opportunities for voyeurism.
13. Sex in a car - Yes. Also received a blowjob while driving - I'll blog about that at some point.
14. Sex at a drive-in - Not many drive-ins around...actually none that I can think of.
15. Mile-high club - No, and I wonder how this can really be done in those tiny bathrooms? I've never taken a very long-distance (i.e., trans-ocean) flight - maybe those big planes have bigger bathrooms.
16. Sex with a stranger - No, and it's one of my lasting regrets that I've never had spontaneous go-with-the-moment, no-strings-attached sex.
17. One-night stand - No (same as above.)
18. Married sex (the best kind, in my opinion) - Yes, and it's consistently amazing.
19. Sex on a boat - No.
20. Sex in a body of water - No.
21. Light spanking - Yes, I love it.
22. Read erotica - Yes, I love it. And that's what made me think I could write it too.
23. Play strip poker/Monopoly/card game - No.
24. Sex in the shower - Yes, love it.
25. Sex standing up against a wall - Yes, love it.
26. Sex with no kissing - Only if someone is sick. I adore kissing.
27. Sex in the pitch black - Yes.
28. Sex in the broad daylight - Yes.
29. Making out with no sex long after you're no longer a virgin - No, but it's a great idea, I adore the slow, unhurried makeout session.
30. Sex in a tent in the wilderness - No. My times in the wilderness have been guys-only outings.
31. Watch porn together - Yes.
32. Watch porn alone - Yes.
33. Learn to give yourself multiple orgasms - I wish.
34. Sex on the beach - No.
35. Blindfolds - No.
36. Using ice sexually - No.
37. Sexual role play - Yes, nothing too exotic.
38. Whipped cream - No.
39. La Perla lingerie sex - Since I don't know what that is, I guess the answer is no.
40. Frederick's of Hollywood lingerie sex - Yes.
41. Sex with someone much older - Sadly, no. This was my recurring fantasy as a young man - that an older experienced woman would show me the ropes. It's still a fantasy that resonates strongly.
42. Sex with someone younger (legal!) - Not more than a couple years younger.
43. Sex in a foreign country, possibly with a foreigner - No. (Okay, this is technically "Yes", but Canada just doesn't seem like a foreign country from the U.S.)
44. A quickie in a skirt - No.
45. A longie in the rain - No.
46. Sex in the ocean while people swim all around you - No.
47. Feather ticklers - Haven't given or received. I'm ticklish and this would drive me bananas. I would wield one if asked.
48. Sex while "altered" whether by alcohol or something else - Mildly altered.
49. Learn to orgasm in less than five minutes from intercourse alone - No, it takes longer than that, unless I'm really worked up to start with.
50. Silent sex in a full house - Yes, which is both frustrating and kind of enjoyable.


  1. Is Canada considered a foreign country?? :)
    How interesting... I was surprised at some of the no's you had.

  2. I can see you still have a lot to try, go for it! Light bondage, ice, cream, whatever.... that could easily be done. And should be extremely enjoyable!