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Tuesday, February 22, 2011

On Eating Pussy

I was reading Lola's Monday Memory of her first cunnilingus experience, and I tried to remember my first time. I know approximately when it had to have been, and I know who it was with, but I can't honestly remember the details of the first time.

It had to have been with my first steady sexual partner, who became my wife. In hindsight (and veering *way* off-topic,) this is a classic mistake, and I would seriously discourage anyone from marrying their first sexual partner - you just don't know what else is out there.

But back to the subject at hand - I was in my twenties, and had had some isolated sexual experiences, but was still quite inexperienced. I was eager to eat pussy (or experience pussy in *any* way, truth be told,) but the experiences I'd had weren't really loving and intimate and didn't lend themselves to it.

So when I finally achieved the Holy Grail, the serious girlfriend and regular sexual partner, I was ready and willing. I had seen it done enough times in porn (ah, the days of VHS cassette rentals) that I had a pretty good idea of what to do. As I say, I can't remember the details of the first time, but I remember the feelings involved from the early forays.

Suffice it to say that I loved everything about it. I loved the smell...the taste...the close-up view of the Great Unknown. I loved the intimacy and the connection...being aware of my partner's response to the things I did...and the variety of what I could do using my lips, tongue, fingers. I loved being able to vary the intensity and bring her to edge...deciding if and when I would let her go over the edge.

And you know what? I still love all these things.

The feedback I've gotten over the years on my oral skills has been pretty much glowing, and I don't mean that as a boast. Eating pussy just isn't that complicated. If you're paying attention and want to bring your partner pleasure, how can you go wrong? Stay present - does she enjoy when you do this or that with your tongue? Remember that. And variety is important - vary the pressure, use just your tongue, then just your lips...bring your fingers into play...then continue with no fingers. Remember what she likes or doesn't like.

I'm a sensual beast - I love the smell and the taste and the touch of a woman...all the sensual experiences and pleasures. I guess there are people who don't find that arousing, and I feel sorry for them and their partners. They don't know what they're missing.

9 comments:

  1. Yes, you are a "sensual beast" and your passion is contagious. Pleasant day to you! xo - E.

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  2. I too, married my first. Now on third and thrive on eating pussy for all the same reasons: sight, taste, smell, intimacy, etc. Great post!

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  3. ahhhh, jeez....the more posts i read on this, the more p'off i get. great post. what a lucky lady you have!!

    and i agree completely. i too don't recommend marrying the first. not that it can't be good. it's just good to see more and have something to compare.

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  4. Gotta love a man who enjoys eating pussy. My husband was never into it. Great post. :)

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  5. I find oral sex the most intimate and personal experiences you can share with someone. I feel so much vulnerability when receiving oral. It's magical to experience it from a partner that cherishes that moment with you.

    Great post indeed!

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  6. Thanks for the wonderful post. I agree with you about not marrying your first sexual partner. I did it, and here I am 30 something years on totally dissatisfied with my sex life - read non-existent sex life, with husband. I bless the day I plucked up courage to find a lover.

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  7. My dear Mystic...

    Lovely public service announcement.. with instructions nonetheless!

    It's always good to hear when a man loves to eat a pussy. It kind of makes it throb... you know?

    Haha... actually... I guess you wouldn't... but, yes... it does! ;-)

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  8. Max, Thanks so much for linking up to my Memories post. :) I enjoyed reading your take on eating pussy, and, like vineyardroad, it does kind of make a pussy twitch and throb to read how much you enjoy it. My hubs definitely isn't an enthusiast (he does okay), and I think that makes a big difference. SG is very lucky!

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  9. Looking at the picture and reading your blog, I remember all the attempts made by fellows I met - lots of scratching; i didnt like what they did with their tongue - all in all a very unpleasant experience! But your post very sensual!!

    Christina

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